Why Don’t you Get your Own Dream?
What is the number one pre-requisite for success? Yes! It is a Dream
But what is a dream. Is it something that you see when you are asleep? No! We are not talking about that kind of a dream. This is the one that you will have to see while you are awake. Think about it! Today’s airplanes can fly at a speed that is much more than the speed of sound. But still every plane, how so ever advanced it might be still is made on the basic principle that Wright brothers had used more than hundred years ago, when they made the first plane that really flew.
Do you think it was easy for the Wright brothers? People laughed at them. They were not qualified engineers. But they had something that was really very important and that is the Power to see a Dream.
In 1961 when John F. Kennedy became the president of USA, he gave a dream. America will be on the moon before the end of the decade. And what was the result? In 1969, Neil Armstrong of the United States of America was the first man to land on moon. When JFK made that historic declaration, USSR was much ahead of USA in space technology. But, it was the dream of a man that won.
India has always been a huge country with diverse languages, culture and religion. Though this made India rich, this was also the greatest weakness that the British colonial rulers exploited. They employed one of the most successful colonial strategy ever used in the world, “Divide and Rule.” But there was a man called Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, who united the entire country and shook the might of British Empire, with tools as simple as non-violence. Ultimately the empire where the ‘sun never used to set’ had to bow to a man with a dream.
Ok! Let us not talk about these great people. Let’s talk about the chair you are sitting on, the table your computer is kept on, or the computer itself, or the house you are living in. All this must have been somebody’s dream. Somebody must have thought how the chair will look like, what it will be made of, what will be the upholstery, what will be the color etc. This thought is nothing but a dream. And than, he must have started making it and would have given it the material shape, as you see it now and that is the realization of the dream.
You are working in an organization owned by someone else. Whose dream is it? Is it your dream or someone else’s? Of course! It is the dream of your top boss. That is why he earns more money than anyone else in the organization. That is why he lives in a better house, drives a better car, and takes his family to vacation in exotic places. The point is simple. The person with a dream has success. The person with a dream is the winner. You are working for someone else’s dream? There is nothing wrong with it. But why don’t you get your own dream?
Now, here no one is asking you to quit your job. What I am simply asking you is to get a dream. You already have it in you, to make it big. Believe me. You have been born with talents and gifts that make you unique. All you will need to do is use them and fire them with passion that comes from a dream. Even in jobs that you are doing, you can become more successful than others and reach the top. However, it is possible if uses your talents, gives you a sense of purpose and you feel passionately about the work that you are doing. Opportunities are not there in the job, but the person who is doing it.
Passion comes when you feel intensely and emotionally about something. It gives you positive energy, courage to overcome hurdles and motivation in face of failures. Look around you and you will find that people who are successful have a passion towards what they are doing and feel very emotionally towards it. This why the dream must be something that is emotionally backed up with a strong desire to achieve it, and that will translate itself into passion.
Obsession is different from passion. Obsession is born out of fear, greed, and insecurity. People who are obsessed are the people who become workaholic and suffer from stress, ignore relationships, and practically do not live a life. These people are not successful, even if they amass a lot of wealth. On the other hand the people with passion are positive. They do everything with an unselfish sense of purpose. Obviously, when they work, they do it with love and a go-give attitude. They enjoy good relationships, are open minded, enjoys good health and are truly successful.
Each one us has been gifted with the power to dream and visualize. But then why is it that only twenty percent of the people in this world are successful. Why is it that twenty percent of the people in the world control eighty percent of its wealth?
It is because most of them out there do not have the faith in their dreams. They are scared of their dreams not coming true and so they bury it deep inside. They do jobs that they do not like, are self-centered and are doomed to a life of mediocrity. They have never been taught the Principles of Success, or they have not learned them. Unfortunately, most of the schools that should be the place to learn these principles are simply a place for assimilation of hard facts and information.
The size of your success will depend on the size of your dream. In turn you will allow yourself to see a dream that is as big as your faith. It is dream coupled with your faith that will give you passion and motivation. Once you have these two, you will automatically attract the knowledge and wisdom that will catapult you to success. You are reading this article means that you already have the desire. Fortunately now a large part of the knowledge is available freely at www.success-atttitude.com
However, there is no free lunch. Even if the resource is available free, you will have to pay for your success with hard work, persistence, and sacrifice. But the price that you pay for success is far less than the price that you pay for failure. As Zig Ziglar, the great inspirational speaker and author say “You enjoy the price of success; you pay the price of failure.”
Vivek Ray
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August 31st, 2009 at 10:05 am
What does it mean if you don’t dream in your sleep?
Does it say anything about yourself if you don’t dream? Is it biological, psychological problem? Or is it because in just in the way you sleep?
August 31st, 2009 at 3:07 pm
You dream, you just can’t remember them. It could be the cycle of your sleep being the reason you cannot recall them after waking.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:09 pm
No I think i once learned that everyone dreams, its just that not everyones able to remember them.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Everyone dreams. It is impossible not to dream. If you don’t dream then you are not sleeping either.
The reason most people think they don’t dream is becasue they don’t remember them. This is common. Most people do not remembe their dreams and often just don’t remember having them.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:13 pm
Actually everyone dreams, but there are some people that will never remember dreaming when they wake up.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:15 pm
You’re dead?….just kidding
Everybody dreams , but few remember it.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:17 pm
If you truly don’t dream, it means that you are not getting any REM sleep, which is really bad. I suppose if you are getting delta sleep instead, maybe it’s ok though.
The only way to tell this is with an EEG. So you really need to see a doctor. If you are not getting REM or delta sleep, you would feel really, seriously horrible. You would be tired all of the time and feel like you are dieing. Are you feeling this bad? In not, then you are probably dreaming and getting REM sleep.
Do you know that we really don’t remember our dreams though? You probably are dreaming and just don’t remember.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:19 pm
it may indicate your mind is to restless to relax.it could be physical or problematical.you may also be protecting yourself from what you know and understand.
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phantomMd
August 31st, 2009 at 3:21 pm
you dream you just don’t remember them all the time a lot of people forget their dreams and there are websites you can go to to help you remember your dreams
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:23 pm
I have always heard that if you dont dream it is because you are not in deep sleep and that is not good because your body needs this deep sleep to recope fromthe day
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:25 pm
Well,creativity is controlled by the left side of the brain(or right,im not so sure).So,if you dont have dreams(like I do),there is a problem with the connection between the memory area(hippocampus,cerebellum,and amygdala)and the creativity area of your brain.Its nothing to worry about and supposedly can be fixed.Instead of memorising things by name/words/etc,try memorising them using pictures in your head,as most other people do.It supposedly reconnects those areas.Don’t worry,I have the same problem as well…..
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:27 pm
its very normal so no worries chill and enjoy
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:29 pm
everyone dreams, you just might not remember them. you dream in the lighter cycles of sleep – when you are more likely to wake up – as opposed to REM sleep when you’re totally deeply alseep. you don’t remember your dreams because you are falling into very deep sleep and being woken up right out of that deep sleep. if you were sleeping lighter and were waking more easily, you would remember your dreams more easily cuz they would only have been a few levels under conciousness. hope this makes sense. sorry i don’t know the exact terms, but that’s the reason you’re not remembering your dreams. you don’t have any problems.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:31 pm
You might just be a deep sleeper. I don’t think people dreem when they are in deep sleeps.
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:33 pm
if you dont dream in your sleep it means you dont have a fear of dying and you get better sleep and if you do dream in your sleep it means your sleeping too lightly and are afraid of dying
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:35 pm
if you didn’t have dreams, you’d be locked in a padded room wearing a straight jacket
if your dreams are irrelevant, your subconscious doesn’t send signals to your conscious brain causing you to remember them
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August 31st, 2009 at 3:37 pm
As previously mentioned, it’s possible that you have dreams but simply do not remember them.
However, it’s also possible that you’re not getting proper sleep. It’s vital that your body go through all of the phases of sleep that make up a sleep cycle. A cycle typically lasts from 60-90 minutes. This can be the beginning of a big problem.
If you wake up feeling exhausted, even after sleeping for 7.5-8 hours, then chances are the quality of your sleep is no good. Likewise if you’re depending on drugs to fall and stay asleep.
If you want to learn more about the importance of sleep and tips for getting a better night’s sleep, check out the articles at http://www.wellness5.com/default.information.IPID54
Keep Well
Rob
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I’m a Wellness Home Consultant. I advise people on how to make their home an environment that promotes good health.